LoveTouch
Loving touch, sensual and sexual is a fundamental need of all humans.
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Mission & Philosophy

Loving touch, sensual and sexual is a fundamental need of all humans.

LoveTouch exits to encourage, educate and share ideas for loving sensual and sexual touch between consenting adults and their right to have private intimate relationships in whatever form best meets their emotional, spiritual and physical desires and needs. Consenting adults in private should have the right to express their intimacy and sexual desires without government or society's imposing a limited set of moral values on different types of intimate relationships.

Or Mission is through education and support, to create a society and local groups in which all forms of consensual, adult and fulfilling relationship styles are broadly understood and are equally respected and honored as legitimate choices.

Marriage and monogamy is one of many legitimate moral options.
But for married couples there’s only a 50-50 chance the marriage will be "to death do us part". Divorce rates remain near all-time highs. As many as 70% of marriages will experience "cheating" one or more times during their existence.

Recognizing the natural desire many men and women have for multiple intimate relationships, an increasing number of well-adjusted, morally responsible adults are admitting to themselves, spouses and others that they don't believe in the myth of "one man, one woman, sexually/emotionally exclusive, legally bound for life."

For example:
More and more people don't think the need a marriage certificate to show their love for each other. More people delay or avoid marriage and cohabitate rather than have the legal binds of marriage for the sake of traditions. If you truely love another , why do you need a marriage certificate? There are some legal advantages to marriage but slowly laws are being revised to recognize committed relationships as a legal alternative to marriage.

Millions of couples choose swinging where they are sexually open usually paired up with other couples as friends which often enhances and deepens the primary couples loving relationship. But honest open communications is needed to get over the indoctrination of society that somehow jealousy is required to love your primary partner. In reality jealousy and possessiveness is the opposite of real love. On the other hand both people have to be honest and open about wanting to have a sexually open relationship.

In contrast to swinging where the primary relationship is often considered the only totally emotional relationship, in polymory there are mulitple, simultaneous open and honest romantic and sexually intimate relationships.

Sexwork is also a legitimate profession that in many cultures, current and historic has had many benefits. Private consenting adult sexwork (prostitution if you must use a word with negative implications of street hookers) is legal, honest and open in almost all the world except the U.S. which has morality laws that make it illegal except in the terrible government as pimp houses in outstate Nevada which is the perfect example of how NOT to "legalize" private sexwork. Instead it should be decriminalized like in most of the world, letting women (or men) control their own bodies and businesses not the government as long as its not solicited in public places that make it a public nuisance. There is a huge difference between the often college education private sexworker vs the often drugged out street hooker with a pimp that is a public nuisance issue.

All of these choices deserve to be legal, and to have respect and social support, when practiced consensually among adults

We also recognize and respect that traditional monogamous marriage is a legitimate choice just as other relationship options are legitimate choices. Learning LoveTouch ideas can enhance all types of relationships.

While our focus is on heterosexual interactions we also support as God given all natural sexual orientation whether gay, lesbian, bi, or straight. We support people in private interacting with others in accordance with their natural sexual orientation without legal or social discrimination. Swinging and open relationships are lifestyle choices. One's sexual orientation is innate and has nothing to do with lifestyle choice unless one is naturally bisexual and is attracted to both sexes physically to various degrees.

Respect for all Religious beliefs - but educate about many false traditions that have no historical basis.

For example, in biblical times there was nothing wrong with a man having many wives, concubines and "common" prostitutes. "Adultery" was a violation of a mans sexual property rights over his women. It was an ownership issue. A man owned his wives and concubines. A married man did not commit "adultery" if the "other women" wasn't owned by another man (single women). A married women always committed adultery if she had sex with any one except her husband. There is never anything in the bible wrong with a married man having sex with single women whether just single, or concubine or common prostitute. It was not until hundrends of years after Christ died that monogamy was made the only option for Christians by the Catholic Church including preists only having one wife, since it was becoming so expensive for the Church to support all the offspring. Monogamy was man's tradition, it has no biblical basis, other than for the elders in the Churches of Timothy or Titus for specific reasons in those two early Church's.

In Judasim Polygyny (one husband many wives) is still practiced by non-Ashkenazi Jews, who never accepted the decrees of Rabenu Gershom (965-1023 A.D.) ending polygyny.

In Islam the Koran says, "...then marry such women as seem good to you, two , three or four..."

Regardless of religious belief, loving touch, sensual and sexual is a fundamental need of all humans.

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